Are you attracted to a girl in 100,200,300,400 level and you think is out of your league? Read this article for some tips on how to gain her interest and improve the likelihood of successful interaction. If not, be single. 1 Be yourself. Do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, or a pick-up artist. Even if it does impress her momentarily, the truth will surface eventually, and you will likely lose her trust and her interest. It is much better to be honest from the beginning, remember all girls can smell a liar.